不完美的我和你

曲目：不完美
演唱：李圣杰
编辑：尛維尼

什么都是我不对
对不起我不够完美
那扇门将两个世界
隔离在冷战的周围
你为何都不说呢
说到底你要什么
掉眼泪是在折磨谁
这黑夜那样的黑
我们为何却都不能睡
世界总会和平的some day
总会有人先说嘿够了没
当你床前放了玫瑰
baby won't you come my way
也许我没说爱你 every day
也无法永远不让你后悔
但我爱我们有笑有泪
爱得不完美 才是一种完美

孤单靠着我的背
当今晚失去你约会
灯熄了谁应该妥协
主旋律又该谁让谁
当情歌失去弦乐
而我们失去了解
所谓幸福只剩对嘴
倔强为何口是心非
说你受伤了无所谓
世界总会和平的some day
总会有我先说是我不对
当你床前放了玫瑰
baby won't you come my way
也许我没说爱你every day
也无法永远不让你后悔
但我爱我们有笑有泪
因为你是我Baby
不完美也很完美
You&I, we'll make it go　away
风风雨雨为了谁
You know i will make these beautiful days
我答应未来会努力
记得说爱你every day
我爱你不只爱你的每种美
更爱你的伤悲 爱你所有的黑白灰
什么都不能代替你的眼泪
什么都不能改变你是爱哭鬼
爱有特别的审美
你的不完美 才是一种完美

没钱的爱情能爱多久？

“没钱的爱情能爱多久？

我的女友很优秀、很出色，直至如今我仍想不出对她能够不一往情深的理由，她的优秀让我对所有感情的诱惑都不屑一顾，我们深深的爱著对方，在校园那段美丽而又浪漫的日子里，我们身旁全是羡慕的眼光。曾有一个喜欢我的女孩儿气呼呼的说我们的爱不会是永远，女友对著她做了个鬼脸，说我们是最幸福的一对。

在学校的时光过得开心而又轻松，几乎每一次我们都是挽著手一起去上晚自习，无论再冷再热的天气我们都会算著时间在对方宿舍楼下等待。下雪的时候她为了我去学织毛线手套，结果手都扎破了，为这些我幸福得炫耀了好多天。我们一起去学校餐厅吃饭，一起看电影，一起逛街，所有能在一起的时间我们都没有错过。我很喜欢我打蓝球时，她在旁边兴高采烈为我加油的样子，我很怀念她坐在我的旧单车后面轻轻依靠的感觉，我为她偷过花园里的玫瑰，为她和别人比赛爬高，结果我摔下来头都破了。那些日子，是我一生的最快乐。

毕业后，我们为了能在一起和各自的家人都闹翻了，他们说我们不会幸福，可那根本无济於事，没人能拦住我们。可是，我们从搬进租来房子的第一天起，就默不作声的对坐了半天，因为我们第一次知道了什么都没有的滋味，她的父母是公司主管，她是他们唯一的女儿；我的家人做生意，而我也是独子，茶来伸手，饭来张口的待遇一去不复返，好在我们是相爱的，我们是真心的，於是相视而笑，拍拍手，开始了新的生活。

社会给我们上了生动的一课。我们真正知道了有学历找工作也并非是那么符合心愿，从起初的高不成低不就，渐渐变成能赚钱的都做，体会到生活的艰辛，领教了现实的残酷，然而我们依然很开心，因为我们能在一起。第一个月发工资我给她买了条围巾，买了份烤鸭和饺子，她却哭了，像个委屈的孩子的在我怀里泣不成声，我的心酸透了，那一刻，我很难过。在寒冬的夜里，我们围著电暖炉取暖，她苦中作乐靠在我的肩头，她美丽的大眼睛里的那种眼神让我感觉很忧伤，我伏在她耳边说一定要让她过好日子，我们一定会像从前那样让人羡慕的。她说能相爱已经是很幸福的事情了，我们还奢求什么呢？只要你能留在我的身边，只要我们永远都能这样相偎著互相取暖，只要你发工钱时还能记得给我买烤鸭和饺子，我就是世上最幸福的女人，再说那些有钱人未必会像我们这样相亲相爱，记住，我们是最幸福的一对，无论发生什么事情我都不要你离开我！

她的话让我心头一热，紧紧的拥住她，我不敢让她看到我的眼泪，因为她喜欢坚强的男孩。我在心里一遍一遍告诉自己要努力，那晚我们再次海誓山盟，那晚我们幻想未来，那晚我们相约一辈子不离不弃。

我想我们的爱够轰轰烈烈了，我想我们的情足以让天地动容了，可就在那晚，房东太太催我们交房租，我们的幸福很让她感动，但她眼睛里更多的是同情和怀疑。

我们每次很穷的时候都会情不自禁的说起在学校的浪漫时光，那时我们不开心的时候只需在校园迷人的小路上拉著手走一段就没事了，那年的圣诞夜我跑遍了城市所有的精品屋才找到她喜爱已久的音乐盒，那时她最爱给我讲王子与公主的故事，那时我的皮肤哪怕蹭破一块皮，她也会心疼得掉眼泪。可是现在，我所能够给她的幸福只是在发工钱时才舍得买的一份烤鸭和饺子。

尽管生活慢慢的好起来，但这种所谓的进步只是相对於以前的寒酸。我们慢慢都有了个稳定的工作，也存了一些钱，但从那时开始我们谈的最多的却成了如何买房子，我们幻想著有一天能有自己漂亮的轿车，她说她给我看中了一套皮尔．卡丹西装，她说要把我打造成一个完美男人。

可我知道，每次路过美容店的时候她都很忧伤，当我看到她那美丽的容颜因缺少保养而有些黯然的时候，我一下子感觉到了自己在这个社会里的渺小，惭愧却只能苦笑！於是那天我花了六百块钱给她买了点美容用的东西，她高兴得像个孩子那样又蹦又跳，此情此景，我唯一能做的也许只能是长叹一口气吧！

我去过她上班的那家广告公司，那些长相平庸的女人们背著意大利真皮皮包，穿著上万元的套装。我也去过她同事的家，那些漂亮房子里有著超大萤幕的投影电视，有著可以将整个人都埋进去的舒适沙发，有浪漫的灯光，有红酒，甚至养著名贵的狗。女主人在炫耀著她的名牌餐具，她价值昂贵的首饰，这一切，只是因为她们找了个有钱的老公，面对满屋子的雍容华贵，我偷偷的脸红了。

她们兴高采烈的谈论著一部最新上映的电影，而我却想到了女友在菜市场为了一块两块钱和人讨价还价的模样，别人说这么漂亮的女生还这么小气时，她的无地自容；记得有天她偷偷对著镜子流泪，因为她那纤细而又娇嫩的手因洗衣而变得苍白，因为，我不知道能够列举出多少因为，但我知道，这一切，只是因为我们还没有能够过上像以前在家里那样的生活，因为我们没有钱；记起挤公车的尴尬；记起她委屈而又不敢表露的神情。

我看了女友一眼，她双腮酡红，过了一会儿她提出有事要先告辞，我知道她是为我著想，我也清晰的记得，那一晚，我们都失眠了。

现实生活里，每天一下班都已是一身一心的疲惫，望著她曾经天真单纯而今写满倦意的脸庞，望著她为了不让我难过而强自微笑的表情，我的心碎了。

於是我拼命的赚钱，像牛一样勤奋不眠，拉著我们的感情前行。我们的事业是有希望的，因为我们有才华，因为我们很努力，但成功却是一个漫长的过程。生活过的好一些了，但我们都知道在我们工作的那个圈子，我们依旧是贫穷的，我偷偷的学会了喝酒、抽烟。

在二年七个月零十三天的那个晚上，她走了，留下一封让我心碎而又无奈的信，

她说：

宝贝，我很爱你，你知道的，我很爱你！”

我看了这篇东西觉得那个女的很厉害，竟然可以将容易放下这么难得的爱情，就是因为穷。
当然，我绝对相信真的会有这么一位女生。
因为活生生的例子就摆在我面前。
一对相恋了4年的男女可以因为男生家境穷而用离开了他。
这4年真的没有让那位女生留恋的念头吗？
男生只是在那段时间有经济困难，而且他条件很好。
那些女生明明自己都有经济能力都会怕穷到这个地步？
可以跟一个自己喜欢的人在一起不是一件容易的事，要他对你好更加难得。
我只能说她不懂得珍惜！

也因为这样我对爱情缺乏信心。
感觉它很儿戏，很危险。
那我的爱情将会是有怎样的结局？
我真的很害怕。。

＊誰可以當男朋友，誰只能當普通朋友。＊

＊誰可以當男朋友，誰只能當普通朋友。＊

普通朋友：半夜會找妳打聊天到很晚。
男朋友：半夜看妳還在上會趕你下線當然妳可以柪個幾分鐘

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普通朋友：他會找你出去玩叫妳放棄報告或翹課。
男朋友：他會催妳快寫作業或者想要跟你討論功課。
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普通朋友：在你生病時，會講好話關心妳。
男朋友：在你生病時，他會關心到你很煩，而且逼你去看醫生。
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普通朋友：他會盡量說好話來討好妳，妳會覺得他很棒。
男朋友：他所說的話，都是關心妳的！但通常像是在命令妳，妳會覺得他幹麻這麼做。
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普通朋友：他什麼事情都會配合著你，只要你高興。
男朋友：他會幫你辨別是非，但你會覺得他管太多。
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普通朋友：他會說他要給你最大的幸福。
男朋友：他只能給你保證，妳跟他在一起，他是最快樂的。
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普通朋友：他會幫你買消夜，送宵夜，載你上下課。
男朋友：他會幫你買宵夜，不過他會提醒你，吃什麼比較健康。他會載你上下課，不過要他有順路，因為他不能為你而翹課。因為他翹課，他成績便會不好，成績不好不會有好工作。那你們將來日子怎麼會好過，他會想的很遠。
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普通朋友：他只有想到現在。
男朋友：他已經預見將來，該怎麼自我努力，好給你幸福。

★我要把幸福裝滿一起送給你～。。☆

一个成熟的爱情...

有一位心理学家曾写过，一个成熟称得上真爱的恋情必须经过四个阶段，那就是：

共存(Codependent)
反依赖(Counterdependent)
独立(Independent)
共生(Interdependent)

第一个阶段：共存
这是热恋期间，情人不论何时何地总希望能黏在一起。

第二个阶段：反依赖
等到情感稳定后，至少会有一方想要有多一点自己的时间做自己想做的事，这时另一方就会感到被冷落。

第三个阶段：独立
这是第二个阶段的延续，要求更多独立自主的时间。

第四个阶段：共生
这时新的相处之道已经成形，你的他/她已经成为你最亲的人。你们在一起相互扶持，一起开创属于你们自己的人生。你们在一起不会互相牵绊，而会互相成长。

但是，大部分的人都通过不了第二和第三阶段，而选择分手，这是非常可惜的。
很多事只要好好沟通都会没事的，不要耍个性，不要想太多，要互相信任，这样，第二和第三阶段的时间就会缩短。

和所爱的人相遇相恋是非常不容易的，不要轻言放弃。
两人相聚是因为有缘，相知是因为有心，真的得好好珍惜这福分。
希望能给大家一些启示和领悟，并惜缘。

我们会渐渐变成我们所爱的人。你和他本来没有相同之处，外表不相像，性格也南辕北撤。
一旦爱上了，年深日久，你会惊讶你的眼睛有点像他的眼睛，他的微笑也有点像你的微笑。你们走路的步伐也有点相似，说话的语气也越来越相像。原来我们会变成我们所爱的人。

你 本来喜欢脚踏实地的人，而他一向比较轻佻，但你们爱上了，他竟会不知不觉变成一个老实人，这个改变，连他自己也不曾察觉。他本来喜欢活泼的女孩，却爱上拘 谨的你，这些日子，你竟会越来越活泼，你差点认不出自己。我们会逐渐变成对方理想中的人，这种改变绝对不是刻意的。两个人越爱得长久，气质也越来越相近。

你 曾经以为他不是你梦寐以求的那种类型，然而，有一天，你会惊讶的发现，他已经变成你喜欢的那种类型，你不必再到处寻觅，他就是你要找的人。深深爱着一个人 的时候，你原来真的会一点一点的失去自己，为什么你还会觉得快乐呢？大概是因为你在失去的时候，你把他的气质和微笑都赚回来了。

幸福很单纯，所以要很单纯的人才容易获得。

真爱就是不轻言放弃。

These Hard Times

Morning falls like rain into the city life
There goes another night
Losing my breath in waves
Knowing that ever crash is breading the hourglass
and taking the strife from all our lives

Everyone keeps talking
They promise you everything
But they don't mean anything

We may loose our focus
There's just too many words
We're never meant to learn
And we don't feel so alive

So goodbye, these days are gone
and we can't keep holding on
When all we need is some relief
Though these hard times
Through these hard times

Move your hands in circles
Keeping me hypnotized
The power behind your eyes

Move around your bedroom cursing the naked sky
You should be here tonight
But you stay alone and cry

Cry

I'm not the type to get my heart broken
I'm not the type to get upset and cry
Cause I never leave my heart open
Never hurts me to say goodbye
Relationships don't get deep to me
Never got the whole in love thing
And someone can say they love me truely
But at the time it didn't mean a thing

My mind is gone, i'm spinning round
And deep inside, my tears i'll drown
I'm losing grip, what's happening
I stray from love, this is how I feel

This time was different
Felt like, I was just a victim
And it cut me like a knife
When you walked out of my life
Now i'm, in this condition
And i've, got all the symptoms
Of a girl with a broken heart
But no matter what you'll never see me cry

Did it happen when we first kissed
Cause it's hurting me to let it go
Maybe cause we spent so much time
And I know that it's no more
I shoulda never let you hold me baby
Maybe why i'm sad to see us apart
I didn't give to you on purpose
Gotta figure out how you stole my heart

My mind is gone, i'm spinning round
And deep inside, my tears i'll drown
I'm losing grip, what's happening
I stray from love, this is how I feel

How did I get here with you, i'll never know
I never meant to let it get so, personal
After all I tried to do, stay away from loving you
I'm broken hearted, I can't let you know
And I won't let it show
You won't see me cry

When You're Gone

"I always needed time on my own
I never thought I'd need you there when I cry
And the days feel like years when I'm alone
And the bed where you lie
Is made up on your side

When you walk away
I count the steps that you take
Do you see how much I need you right now?

When you're gone
The pieces of my heart are missing you
When you're gone
The face I came to know is missing too
When you're gone
The words I need to hear to always get me through the day
And make it OK
I miss you

I never felt this way before
Everything that I do
Reminds me of you
And the clothes you left
They lie on the floor
And they smell just like you
I love the things that you do

We were made for each other
Out here forever
I know we were

All I ever wanted was for you to know
Everything I do I give my heart and soul
I can hardly breathe I need to feel you here with me"

Runaway

"Got up on the wrong side of life today
Crashed the car and I'm gonna be really late
My phone doesn't work cause its out of range
Looks like it's just one of those kind of days
You can't kick me down Im already on the ground
No you can't cause you couldn't catch me anyhow
Blue skies but the sun isn't coming out no
Today it's like I'm under a heavy cloud

And I feel so alive
I can't help myself,don't you realize

I just wanna scream and lose control
Throw my hands up and let it go
Forget about everything and runaway

I just want to fall and lose myself
Laughing so hard it hurts like hell
Forget about everything and runaway

So so is how I'm doing if you're wondering
I'm in a fight with the world but

I'm winning
Stay there come closer it's at your own risk
Yeah you know how it is life can be a bitch

But I feel so alive
I can't help myself, don't you realize"

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10月1日 领袖人物


10月1日出生的人经常会在事业、社交或家庭结构的巅峰戛然停止，这种现象不能“牵拖”于干劲或进取的问题，真正无凶应该是他们所定的方向或所用途径。有部分的人似乎发现自己拥有“天赋异秉”，却使他们陷入进退两难的，因为他们的野心并不大。没错，身为领袖人物总会有“高处不胜寒”的压力，尤其心理方面，更使他们难以掌握。

今天出生的人总是会遭遇到事业方面的问题。好比说，当他们费尽心血到某个重要的位置时，却突然发现搞错目标。哎！这得归咎于他们的拘谨，所以没有办法充分享受成功的乐趣。的确，工作所引发的难题，严厉地折磨着他们，偏偏完美主义倾向让他们无法撒手不管，所以就越往胡同里钻。不过，透过这些“天降大任”的磨难，他们也能表现出惊人的学习力，以及仆人的辉煌发展。

人际关系方面，10月1日出生的人老是和能力强又果断、目标明确的族群为伍。无庸置疑。今天出生的人必须找到既能帮助他们又能了解他们必须往高处爬的人为伴。这种伴侣的情感支柱，将是推动他们迈向成功的伟大双手。

普遍来说，今天出生的人也算是“怪胚子”，他们只懂得以自己奇特的方式处理问题。然而，他们努力的结果经常“树大招风”，也难怪别人对他们严肃以待，甚至奉为偶像。当我们旁观这群怪胚子工作，或者看他们与朋友的合照时，就能领悟到他们怪在哪里。还有，非正统的工作方法或哲学，让他们成为从事领域里的“异形”。虽然对工作全神贯注，但是没有把伙伴或公司政策摆在眼里，也导致别人的枪口齐对着他们。

今天出生的人大多秉持着经验胜于教育的看法。当然，绝对不能小看他们的专业，他们看起来的确精干、自信、诚实与尊贵。哪怕得费尽余生的精力，他们多半都能赢得别人的敬爱，甚至到他们活跃不起来时，还是会惹人怀念，连以前他们颇有徽词的人都会反过来说好话呢。

幸运数字和守护星
10月1日出生的人会受到数字1和太阳的影响。他们爱当“头头”，数字1使他们非常独特、独断，而且汲汲于爬到最高位置。或许，他们对自己应当扮演的角色有所矛盾，但不论这种感觉带给他们何种程度的沮丧或愤怒，他们都有足够的精力与专注可以坚持到底。虽然太阳象征强烈的创造力与光芒，但是最好控制为源源不断，而非突然涌现，然后迅速烧尽。金星（天秤座的主宰行星）与太阳的结合，将会为他们带来浪漫与理想主义的气息。

健康
今天出生的人，不管是“实事求是型”或“隐居山林型”，都很有健康概念。如果，他们完美主义的焦点正好落在改进或维持身体状况时，他们会把身体照顾得无微不至；反之，则可能会置之不理。今天出生的人要特别留意肾脏或内部器官可能会因不良饮食或药物而受到损害。高脂肪、动物性蛋白质、酒类和甜食不碰为妙，此外，营养高的谷类、新鲜蔬菜和健康食品都是健康良伴哦。

建议
持之以恒。远离恐惧与顾虑。专注于自我实现的预言。试着将权责分与他人。

名 人
卡特(Jimmy Carter)美国总统，曾任乔治亚州州长，调停过以埃和平，博爱主义者，亦从事写作，著有《保持信心》一书。

台湾创作歌手黄韵玲，代表作为《蓝色啤酒海》。

英国舞台剧及电影女星茱莉安德鲁丝(Julie Andrews)，也是颇受欢迎的著名歌手。

霍罗维茨(Vladimir Horowitz)俄国钢琴家，公认为最后一位浪漫派大师，1936－1939年曾中断演奏事业，1953年起仅为录制唱片而演奏。

美国最高法院大法官瑞奎斯特(William Rehnquist)。

英国歌舞赏霍洛威(Stanley Holloway)，也是电影、舞台剧演员。

塔罗牌

大秘仪塔罗牌的第1张是“魔术师”，象征智慧、沟通和资讯。魔术师头上有一个代表无限的符号，有时宽帽表示，有时则是一道光环。这张牌有许多种解释，其一是：魔术师领悟出生命循环不息的本质，并且因为这层而拥有力量。所以牌面正立代表富有外交手腕、精明干练；牌面倒立时则表示毫无顾忌与投机心态。

静思语

当两个人同时陷入困境时，如果有人不能思考或判断，另外一个人就得帮两个人作决定。

优点
独一无二、专注、尊贵。

缺点
易制造危机、犹豫不决、疏远。

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IQTest

IQTest

Feel free and boring? Try this test with patient.
Kinda interesting oh.

My score: happy..ing

Im stupid...

How Stupid Are You?

The result I got really upset me er...

"Your Score Summary

Overall, you scored as follows:

27% scored higher (more stupid),
3% scored the same, and
70% scored lower (less stupid).

You are 70% stupid. This means...

You need help! Seems that the question were a little too hard for you, huh?"

Oh oh, seems I need help ASAP..

Capricorn Man

A man in this Zodiac will has a pair of round big beautiful eyes, a nice
structure jaw line. He is a good listener and can understand everything
easily and clearly. He can guess what you will say before you even say it.
He often shakes his head or touch his hair. He is a big built, but he will
tend to have a small ear. He tends to have a darker shade of hair and eyes'
color. He will likely have a short and strong neck, broad shoulder,
muscular, strong hands and grips. He has a shorter fingers compare to the
man of the same size and same height in the other zodiac. His hands can work
well at the same time can protect and care for his woman.

His height will be proportional to his weight. He will walk firmly and
always take a big long step. As he walks he will look around in caution with
no disturbance from his problems at present or in the past. He likes to
watch things built with fascinate and wonder about how it is done, so you
could see him watching a construction site and not get bored.

He is a good dancer. He is a careful person in instinct, so even at dance
floor, he will already have to know what in front or behind him before he
will take any steps.

Green is his favorite color. You will mostly see him wear green, navy, blue,
or brown. In all 12 Zodiacs, he is the one who can get the most satisfaction
from possession of beautiful thing, and cherish it as if it is very valuable
to him even it is just a crystal ball made in France.

It is his luck that he hardly has to chase after woman. They always come
themselves without his invitation. He likes to treat his guest in his house
than visiting his guest at their house. He does not like to be a center of
attention, so if you need his help, you have to look up for him. He lives
his life in stability and simplicity. Every decision made are already "Sure"
and carefully thought out. He will not do what he has been asked to do if he
is not interested in doing it. He acts casually but in reality, he always
doing things seriously.

He loves peaceful and quiet environment so in his free time, he will stay at
home instead of going out and look for adventure. He loves nature and dreams
of a nice and quiet house with lots of trees, or he may dream of a house in
a beautiful countryside.

He will let you have freedoms and watching you in a distance. If you are
over doing something, he will let you know by his icy cold look. He is the
perfect lover in all the Zodiac for nothing he will not do for his love one.
He won't allow people to laugh at him or think he is a joker, so he will
spent for himself luxury for what it is worth.

He likes neat and well dressed woman, so do not be a slop if you are dating
this guy. If you do that he will loose his face. He is the romantic type who
would dance with you under the moon light.

Love will make him shines and you will see it in his face. He will not say
it out loud, you have to know it yourself.

Libra Woman

Libra woman mostly has an egg oval facial shape. She has a nice smooth skin
and a good figure. She will spent so much efforts to keep her skin clean and
pretty. She can be easily allergy to cosmetic and make up, but taken care of
her face and avoid wrinkle is her hobby. She is good at it and tend to look
younger than her age.

She can be very naughty like a little boy, but yet fully 100% woman. She
looks nice in either Jean or night gown. She thinks woman is equal to man.
Sometimes she can think faster than you, but she will not leave you far
behind. She will try not to make you feel like you are competed or defeated
in any games she plays with you even she is winning.

She is a little flirt even she has no idea what she wants. She can not
decide what to do, and what not to do, so she can not set her schedule very
well in all cases.

She is gifted with how to dress, and how to match her dress. She likes to
dress in black and wear perfume. She likes a mild flowery scent.

In any argument, she can really argue. She can argue for hours, and mostly
win the argument. If it is not a serious argument, she could argue and once
a while give you a smile also. She will make a good politician, because she
can tell which party will win the election.

She always has a good reasons ,even she likes to contradict herself. She can
not decide what is right and wrong for her, because everything has a good
side and a bad side. Woman in other Zodiac might not care what other people
think, but Libra woman care what other people ,or what you feel as much as
her own feeling.

She can adjust to her environment very well, so at work she will be at the
ladder up. She likes team work in doing things. If you ask her for help or
advice, she will help you except if she does not like your guts. She can
change you and make you think you change by yourself without her influence.

Good side of being with Libra woman are she never interfere with your
privacy. She will not make you loose face in front of your friends. Even she
cares about how much money she has left his her bank account, she will never
forget to let you know how much she cares for you.

She think taken care of the house is a woman job and she can do it well. But
if you expect a Libra woman to fear you, then you are wrong. She is a strong
woman even she looks at you with that sweet innocent pairs of baby's looks
and may loose you (let you win) in a few poker games.

If she is the one you are after, then go step by step. The best way is using
her friends introducing you to her. Do not make her feel or treat her like a
bubble head. You have to move forward toward her with confident and secure.
Show her that you are a kind , polite and a real gentleman. Be a slow hand
or else you might get smack!

平淡的流年

"一天，男孩和女孩吵架了。他不再對她說 我愛你 ，當然她也不再對他說我也是。
一天晚上，他們談到了分手的事，背對背睡下了。
半夜，天上打雷了。
第一聲雷響時，他醒了，下意識地猛地用雙手去捂她的耳朵，才發現不知何時他又擁著她。
雷聲緊接著炸假裝什麼也沒發生，可誰都沒有睡著她想也許他還愛我，生怕我受一點點嚇。
他想，也許她還愛我，不然她不會流淚的。
愛的最高境界是經得起平淡的流年。"

沉思

"在对的时间，遇见对的人，是一生幸福。
在对的时间，遇见错的人，是一场心伤。
在错的时间，遇见错的人，是一段荒唐。
在错的时间，遇见对的人，是一阵叹息。

其实有些事情，真的是没得到的时候，最珍贵美丽。
你是否分得清楚，你爱的是那“得不到”的感觉还是“那个人”？

聪明的人喜欢猜心，虽然每次都猜对了，却失去了自己的心......
傻气的人喜欢给心，虽然每次都被笑了，却得到了别人的心......"

这是我从朋友的部落转贴回来的。。
朋友是从别的地方贴上去的。。。
就是酱一直传一直传下去。。

Quarrel

Interesting

EASY vs DIFFICULT

Easy is to judge the mistakes of others
Difficult is to recognize our own mistakes

Easy is to talk without thinking
Difficult is to refrain the tongue

Easy is to hurt someone who loves us.
Difficult is to heal the wound...

Easy is to forgive others
Difficult is to ask for forgiveness

Easy is to set rules.
Difficult is to follow them...

Easy is to dream every night.
Difficult is to fight for a dream...

Easy is to show victory.
Difficult is to assume defeat with dignity...

Easy is to admire a full moon.
Difficult to see the other side...

Easy is to stumble with a stone.
Difficult is to get up...

Easy is to enjoy life every day.
Difficult to give its real value...

Easy is to promise something to someone.
Difficult is to fulfill that promise...

Easy is to say we love.
Difficult is to show it every day...

Easy is to criticize others.
Difficult is to improve oneself...

Easy is to make mistakes.
Difficult is to learn from them...

Easy is to weep for a lost love.
Difficult is to take care of it so not to lose it.

Easy is to think about improving.
Difficult is to stop thinking it and put it into action...

Easy is to think bad of others
Difficult is to give them the benefit of the doubt...

Easy is to receive
Difficult is to give

Easy to read this
Difficult to follow

Easy is keep the friendship with words
Difficult is to keep it with meanings